I Hope You Had a Wonderful Valentine's Day!

In this section of my website I will provide you with 365 daily tips to a Year of submissve fullfillment toward surrendering and serving your Dominant Wife/Mistress. 

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       February 2005

February 1 -  The next time you are doing something with your Dominant Wife that she enjoys, make a note of it in a special section of your 'Journal' and remember to go back to that activity to do it again, do it longer, and schedule a time to do it again as soon as possible.  Think of ways to change your lovemaking to Worship at her breasts.  'My love for you is like a sachet of myrrh resting between your abundant and ample breasts.'

February 2 - Write a story about the two of you with your Wife in the Dominat role.  It can be set in an exotic place or somewhere nearby.  It can be romantic, fun, sensual, or all of the above.  Share it with her and then use it to experiment with ideas that you each would like to try. 

February 3 -  Buy your Wife's favorite kind of Girl Scout cookie.  The Girl scouts are now out in force, so support this worthwhile group.  Bring the cookies home for the treat your Wife deserves.  My personal favorite are the Thin Mints.  Yummy!

February 4 -  A Woman's cycle significantly affects just about every part of her being - and that can include her need to be touched, or to NOT to be touched.  Premenstrually I'm usually exremely horny!  But that tapers down once things start, especially if cramps are strong. Later in my period I seem to have a fairly normal level of horniness.  As your Wife's hormones dance about, there are likely to be times when she is more desirous of touch, and/or more hurt by a lack of touch.  There may also be times when touch is less important, or even when "too much" touch will annoy her.

February 5 -   A problem that many men have is showing their spiritual side to their Wives.  One thing that you can do is to show your Wife that you are praying for her, which all husbands should do.  Take a small glass candle holder and put one small single candle in it.  When you make love light it and tell her that you want her to look at it during your lovemaking.  Leave it burn on a table that is safe and then extinguish it as you retire to sleep.  In the morning light it again.  It will be the first thing that she sees when she awakens.  She will know that when that candle is lit, you are praying for her.   

February 6 -  The next time you make love, remind yourself it's about her, about your desire for her, not just your general "horniness" as a male.  If that is not something she knows because of your relationship, your conversations, and your actions in general, you have much work to do.   

February 7 -  Valentine's Day is only a week away!!!  Begin to "think hearts."

February 8 -  If you will be traveling or if next Monday is not a good day to celebrate Valentine's, select a near by day to celebrate.  Tell her you want to do it right, and that you don't feel you can do it right on the assigned day, so you want to move the celebration.

February 9 -  Chocolate.  For many women it's not just a treat, it's necessary for life to be worth living!  Unless your wife is one of the .002% of women who have no use for chocolate, it's absolutely necessary for you to give her some on next Monday. 

February 10 -  I don't know what it is about lingerie, but most men really like it.  We are four days away from the big day, so if you are going to purchase some lingerie, look for something pretty, feminine, and alluring.  On Valentines eve give your gift undressed, so she knows you will enjoy seeing her wear your gift.  

February 11 -  Among other things, this time before St. Valentines Day can be a time of reflection, looking back at the mistakes of the last month or more, and planning changes to make for the rest of the year.  Why not take a bit of time to reflect on your relationship with your Wife, and with how you are going to treat her.  Think about the mistakes you've made (selfishness, impatience, indifference), and consider how you can avoid making the same mistakes in the future.  As a submissive male commit to truely surrendering to your Wife.  

February 12 -  Look into yourself for a real receptivity to anything that you do that is romantic.  Some submissive husbands will know how to add a bit of romance, others will, quite frankly, wonder what the big deal is.  Either way, pray for an ongoing sense of romantic adventure in your marriage.

February 13 -  Genuine words of love and appreciation always speak romance.  Write your Wife a love note and share your heart.

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February 15 -  Find something you can honestly compliment you Wife about.  By the way, this is one area where complimenting her in front of others is particularly meaningful.

February 18 - Go shopping for art together.  Whether you are just looking for inspiration or are seeking out a hand painted masterpiece or a fun poster, spend some time looking for something that you both like and represents The Art of Female Domination. 

February 19 - Don't be afraid to be authentic in the bedroom.  Ask for what you think you would like.  Be a little spontaneous.  Don't be too concerned about how you look or sound.  Allow your Dominant Wife to see a more private and personal side of you.

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