Every month I get emails asking me for advice.  This group of emails are those I have received from Women since the beginning of December that pertain to the subject of foot fetish.  My definition of foot fetishism is a pronounced sexual interest in the lower limb or anything that covers portions of them.  The allure normally attributed to erogenous zones is literally transferred downward and the submissive male's response to the foot is the same as a conventional person's arousal at seeing genitals. 

The term fetish is firmly associated with sex and the attraction of certain portions of the Female body, or specific articles of Female attire.  Over the next year I intend to thouroughly explore all manner of fetish desires of the submissive male on 'The Art of Female Domination' website.  Some of the areas of Female anatonmy which have strong fetish interest that I will be exploring in the months ahead are; feet, hair, buttocks, and breasts, legs, the anus, vulva and belly.  Some of the objects we will explore together will include. gloves, lingerie, hose, leather, brassieres, corsets, garters and jewlery.   

The questions in this short series on foot fetishism range from how do I talk about this aspect of my sexuality to when should I tell my partner and how kinky is this?  Often the best answer to when to discuss the subject is sometime between the first date and intimacy. 

From Barbara:  My husband of 15 years has an intense foot fetish.  He was very open about this when we first started dating and I decided early on that what we did in our bedroom is absolutely fine.  Over the years I have really come to enjoy the way he worships my feet with his hands, tongue and mouth.  He shops with me for my footwear several times a year and is really into Womens feet.  I love to wear stockings, nylons, garters and boots/heels for him.  He not only pampers my feet he makes sure that the rest of me is very well taken care of. 

When I am wearing a shoe, it symbolises so much to him.  I enjoy watch him as he makes love to me as I am wearing stilletto heels.  The delicate parts of the shoe resemble the anatomy of genitalia and even the aroma of the shoe has powerful aphrodisiac properties.  To him the heel represents the phallus and is an aspect that he often favours with kissing, licking, biting and caressing.  I remember when he first told me this, he was so embarrassed.  I now have a wonderful collection of shoes and stockings and I make certain Women see him helping me when I shop.  He has an exquisite taste for elegant style.  The high heeled shoe is a symbol of love and also a symbol of aggression.  My husband is a great guy in every way and I support his love for me by giving him his fetish fantasy.    

From Linda:  I have dated a number of guys who wanted to worship my feet.  Although petite is stature, I am very assertive and seem to attract submissive males.  Probably because I wear a size 5 shoe and my feet are always manicured to perfection and I am told I have very pretty feet.  The attraction goes beyond the small size of my foot, and includes the curve of the arch and instep, the length and straightness of my toes, and the texture and complexion of my skin, the contours of the heel and ankle, and the soft supples feel of my sole.  My current boyfriend gives me pedicurtes wearing only a toga.  I love to receive a footrub and sometimes I want it to be platonic.  I love that after a long day.  When he is making love to me, I enjoy him worshiping away as I feel his kissing and licking as he pays some attention to my feet and then orgasms as manipulate his cock and watch him thrust into my delicate foot as he hold it firmly under the base of his cock.  It is quite incredible to have this power as I look down at him with my legs open and then feel his warm cream bathe my feet.  

From Marcia:  My husband and I are involved in foot fetishism, although we have never really talked about it.  We both know what is going on, but I think when you put the label fetish on something it makes it seem wrong.  I know he understands that when he is kissing my feet that he relishes his role which is a physical, psychological and even social inferiority to me as his sexual Dominant and this activity takes him to where he can establish some level of intimacy.  For us I suppose it is kinky but at the end of the day, it is perfectly normal and enjoyable as I remind him of his role as I watch him grovel and serve me.  

From Evelyn:  After my husband told me about his fetish desires, I decided to sex myself up with several pair of killer stilettos.  I am a nurse and seing me in my all white uniform and wearing stillettos is enough to really send him.  The heels changed my whole outlook and how I approach sex with him.  My best shoes are a pair of what I call my 'porn shoes' with heels that have me towering and ankle straps that are to die for.  When I bend over, he is mesmerised and these shoes are the absolute ultimate for him.  It doesn't take long after I am bent over and he is worshipping my naked butt that I begin to feel him making thrusting movements into his hand.  Sometimes it can be just moments after I slip off my sheer white panties and he sees my bush that he very soon loses it and makes his mess.  This is embarrassing for him as he has a bad habit of premature ejaculation.  I am trying to work with him and train him out of this.  But it takes work! 

The poor dear knows his ejaculation problem is nerve based when he very suddenly loses control and makes his creamy mess on my foot.  It is rare that he gets to even enter me because of his premature ejaculation problems.  Usually it is just one stroke for him and his orgasm just overtakes him.  This is embarrassing and humiliating for him, so I sometimes will help him with the 'nurses technique' I learned when I was in school by taking his cock and squeezing my thumb and forefinger underneath the head before he can spurt and make his mess.  The side benefit for me is that it is so much fun and sexy to watch him lick his creamy mess from my foot.  The thumb technique usually works to control him but I frequently have to repeat the technique to help him.  We realize this is all psychosexual and we are working to discover the emotional root of his problem. 

But once we get his orgasm out of the way it is all about me as he has been taught how to make me come over and over again with his hands, mouth and tongue.  I do not allow him to fall into a stupor and go to sleep as he often has a full night of work to do.  Thank God for the invention of the dildo and vibrator!  My darling, knows just how to hold it to maximize my enjoyment and pleasure. 

How Divine!

Come back soon to read the daily additions to my Foot Festish page.  I get several emails everyday at Paige@Paige-Harrison.com about the wide range of male submissive fetish desires and behaviors.  I will continue to excerpt the relevant thoughts from Dominant Women to help you deal with these issues of your sexuality.  Visit my page, the Spirituality of Sex for more of my insights into your fetish desires.