It is prevalent in our society as it happens everyday!  Just yesterday, it happened again.  As reported in the Chicago Tribune on January 29; a suburban financial advisor, Daniel Rallo shot and killed himself in the head as Chicago homicide detectives arrived at this front door with a search warrant seeking to question him in the slaying of a high-priced prostitute last November.  Abuse of a Woman!  Well, that is nothing new as that happens all of the time!

The financial advisor, Daniel Rallo was inside his home in Streamwood, IL as police used force to knok down the door to enter his home.  As they stepped inside the door they heard the gunshot!  The blast of a single gunshot reverberated through the home.  At the top of the steps they found Rallo, age 36 on the floor with a gunshot wound to his temple and a revolver at his side. 

Mr. Rallo had been involved with a mature older woman, sometimes known as an escort.  Her name was Kathryn Hogue, she was 45.  It was known that he loved and worshiped her as a Goddess.   She was beautiful, wise and had money; and she made the mistake of trusting him.  She had the flowing blond hair of a Goddess.  Her professional name was “Cheryl of Chicago.”  It is believed that she was strangled with wire by Mr. Rallo last November.  Ligature marks were found around her neck showing how the crime had been committed.  Rallo apparently owed the Woman money.  At the crime scene there were documents that linked Rallo to the dead Woman. 

The police began their investigation and began to track him down on November 18, after they found her lying on the floor of the stylish condo she owned in the 1200 north block of Bosworth.  Detectives tried to interview Rallo in December.  He consented to the interview but then he did not show up for the appointment.  Next he tried to hide behind attorneys and the 5^th Amendment.  It is now known that Rallo was not licensed as a financial advisor that he said he was and that he had stolen money from Hogue!  She was ‘desperate’ to get away from this man as she had trusted him to handle her money; $55,000 was in dispute.  It is also now known that he left many of her financial transactions in a state of mess and confusion.  Mr. Rallo too was conflicted and ‘desperate’.  He was just another desperate submissive male, caught in a web of lies and entanglements and now he is dead before the age of 40.  How sad.  If only he had attempted to live authentically.    

The lead detective in the case is quoted in the Chicago Tribune saying, “Here are two people dead, over a lousy $50 grand!” 

Some lessons here.  Submissive men who are in a state of confusion will do desperate things.  They will visit porn websites, they will buy penis enhancement products, and visit escorts.  They cannot be trusted with money.  Women……review his credit card statements ALWAYS.  And most importantly keep control of your money.  As you earn more and out earn your male be careful who you will trust. 

Submissive males harbor powerful primal emotions which deeply affect them.  They  can be dangerous as evidenced by this real life story told in the pages of the Chicago Tribune.  Submissive sexuality does not have to mean death.  Encourage your male to face his demons and to be honest with you.  Keep him on a short leash for the sake of your family and your relationship.  Marriage acts as a vessel to contain many otherwise destructive tendencies of the male creature. This vessel also protects the couple from outside influences. In particular, the marriage provides a way for a male to channel his energies constructively . 

Wemen are the civilizing influence in society.  The more a husband submits to the influence of his Wife, the more blissful the relationship.  There is no better example of this than when a Wife assumes the Dominant role in the marriage.  Without fail, the husband is happer and more productive even as he takes on a greater burden and a lesser responsibility for decisions.

At the crime scene the neighbors watched as police officers carried out evidence, including a computer tower.