The sexuality of the submissive male is very basic and is limited to the stimulation of his genitals and what he can visualize within his brain.  His orgasm and release is achieved and culminated within a few seconds with rapid thrusting and spasms as he ejaculates.  This is often a painful experience for the submissive male.  The intensity of the pain can be associated with anxiety, fear and guilt over a variety of gender identity issues and conflict with his male orientation and female gender identity.  Other issues such as guilt over infidelity or long time isues of identity with sexuality can cause pain and bring about a fear of ejaculating that are carried deep within the soul of the submissive male.      

Many submissive men have a deep need for humiliation and desire to Worship the Female in a prostrate position.  Pushing a male to his lowest depths is a means of reinforcing her Superior position.  A Dominant Woman should frequently her male of his subordinate role to serving he Female Dominant. The submissive male who is placed into positions of humility such as kissing and worshipping at her feet will come to an acceptance of his role at an earlier point in time than if these activites are not practiced.  There is a great symbolism in the act of  kneeling before a Woman or kissing her foot in submission and surrender which reinforces the identity of being in a subordinate role. 

All women have a Goddess of sexuality and spirituality within them.  The body of a Goddess Woman is beautiful and sacred and has far superior sexual capabilities than the male.  Her sensuality and sexuality is overwhelming to the submissive male as he is often psychologically pushed to worship and adore the Female form, which he may try to resist.  The Female is intoxicatingly erogenous and erotic to the submissive as compared to a male who possesses only a very tiny area of sexuality. 

In many cultures lovemaking is focused only on the Female.  The submissive male serving and giving pleasure to his lover in the intimate act of giving oral sex in ways that are deeply spiritual and ritualistic.  This ancient practice of oral worship is known as kamasutra tantra.  A Dominant Woman has a right and an expectation that she is to be worshipped, served and pleasured in this highly sensual and erotic manner by her submissive lover.  However, the male must be taught these skills and to kneel and bow to the Woman as he is the submissive to her Dominance as his Lover.  The male must learn and understand that what he wants is what only a Woman can give him.  He must learn to surrender his destructive male ego and kneel and bow to his Dominant Lover to fully absorb her energy in a deeply spiritual way. 

Women Are Superior to males

I am a firm believer in Female Supremacy.  Years of experience have demonstrated to me that Women are Superior to males in many areas.  What is the most compelling to the argument is that because Women produce the eggs, it is she is essential to the future.  Eggs are reproductive cells and sperm are not.  Additionally, more intellect, intellectual control over emotions, sharper senses and longer lives are just a few of the areas that point toward the reasons why Women are best equipped to lead and men should follow.  However, it is in the area of Female sexuality that Women hold all the Power.  Girls learn quickly how to tease and control the male.  I can tell you that I especially enjoy teasing men.  Sometimes I will absolutely confuse them by wearing "male-oriented attire" such as pants and suits with my heels which give me my exclusively feminine appeal.  Submissive males will always be attracted to that which is exclusively associated with femininity in one way or another. 

Additionally, most men live without direction and guidance. I know this because my submissive male is one.  His submission to me in all aspects of his life; has made him a better person for it.  The time is now for the Female-Led relationship model and lifestyle to take hold. 

I enjoy controling my submissive lover's mind and body when he is serving Me, as I am perched above him on pillows, where the ambiance is conducive to my enjoyment.  The soft lighting, candles and the music of My choice, it is all a very erotic place for me as I watch my male as he is completely naked and kneeling before Me in submission.  I can sense his excitement as he is lowered and I give my nectar to him and carefully watch him as he drinks the juices from my Pussy.  Watching him in this way, I can see how my liquids are absorbed and enjoyed by my submissive male lover and see how completely it nourishes his soul, by drinking in my love.